Sigourney Weaver received an Emmy nomination for her role as Mary Griffith in the made for tv movie called 'Prayers for Bobby' and I'm hoping she wins it! The movie hit close to home for many that watched the story unfold... it hit way too close to home for me.

I read through some of the comments that were left on the movie's page on the lifetime website... it was one of the hardest things that I've had to do in quite some time. The raw emotion that this topic brought out of people was truly moving, endearing, heart-wrenching, and painful all at the same time. Page after page, people from all sides of the discussion commented and expressed their views, experiences, and feelings; most of them from LGBT's wanting to express their gratitude for the creation of this movie.

This movie moved me to tears repeatedly...

The pain that comes with that moment in a gay person's life is almost indescribable, and that's why this movie touches so many of us in the community. Simply because there aren't words that we can put together to explain how we felt and thought during that point in our lives; this movie offers an extraordinary depiction of what happens in many families, mine included.

Based on a true story, the movie depicts the story of a young gay teenager coming out to his conservative, Christian family. It also explores how Mary disapproves of her son’s sexual orientation and tries to change him through prayer and psychiatry. After his death, she questions her faith and eventually becomes an advocate for gay rights.

This story is tragic, yes, but after realizing the error of her ways, Mary Griffith set out to work with PFLAG (Parents, Families, And Friends of Lesbians, and Gays) in order to prevent more tragic stories like her son's. I've said before that we should be waging a social war for our equal rights, and I still stand by that because it took the death of this women's son to realize that there's nothing wrong with being gay. Mary Griffith blames herself for the death of her son to this day, acknowleding that had she supported and loved her son that he'd still be alive.

Stay strong ladies and gentlemen because the next generation needs our help! Look for ways to reach out to the next generation of LGBT's in your community, because they might not have anyone else there for support.

For more information on where you can find more information, contact me at leo@citizenzero.us and I'll point you in the right direction.

God bless America

 


Comments

Mon, 31 Aug 2009 00:05:26

I completely and totally agree! This was a total tear-jerker of a movie, yet totally an inspiration in a very round-a-bout way. It makes you realize what most of us take for granted on a day to day basis, such as our loving families and friends. Not everyone has such great support groups. In addition to reminding us of our truly loving family and friends, Prayers for Bobby shows there is always room for people to grow with a greater understanding, given diverse situations. Even though it may seem that many people are such bigots, it's only a matter of what new perspective it will take to show them the true beauty of diverse and truly loving individuals.

 

Basu

Mon, 31 Aug 2009 22:22:31

Thanks for your blog about gays, you should help the minorities.

I am not gay, but I feel that gays should have equal rights too. However, I personally don't feel that gay rights should violate our social norms and values.

Please do not take offense, my opinion only.

Thank you.

 

Mon, 31 Aug 2009 22:37:33

Thanks for reading, this movie was moving in many different ways. Many points that Ronnie touched on, but it's about our basic rights to be who we are without the stigma that comes along with being gay...

I can understand where Basu's coming from, because a large portion of people do want to see gays treated equally, but not at the hinderence of the majority. I don't feel that's an argument of ignorance, I take it as just a personal opinion.

The point is that we all agree that equal rights are our common ground, and everything else can be built up from there.

We may have to agree to disagree at times, but that's life.

-Citizenzero-

 



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